Wednesday, May 13, 2009

You're Engaged!!!

Congratulations!!! You're Engaged!!!

Now what??
I can't tell you how many times I've heard that question. To help, I've made a quick to-do list for you as you start your engagement period!




1)The bride should get a manicure! Everyone will be checking out the ring so spend a little time, in enjoying the moment, and pamper those hands!

2)Don't rush...well unless you want to get married in less than 90 days. Otherwise you and your fiance' should take some time, a couple weeks at least, and really enjoy just being engaged.

3)While you're taking that time, try to have a few heart to heart chats, just the two of you, in regards to the upcoming wedding day. Ask each other questions like, "What do you want our wedding day to be like?" or, "Is there anything you don't want?" If you think it will help, take some notes while you're talking so you don't forget each other's input or a great idea one of you has. Before you get carried away with deciding things like colors and the dinner menu you should talk generally about things like, the wedding date, size, and budget and see what the other is comfortable with. Overall, the most important thing is that the two of you are on the same page when it comes to what you each want your wedding day to look like.

4)When you're ready, set a date. Some people know before they are engaged when the wedding date will be. Other couples wait, sometimes months, before picking their upcoming wedding date. In either case once you've done number three I think it's a great time to, while including each other's families, set the date.

5)Now you're ready to put together a planning timeline. Using the aid of a published wedding planner is a great place to start when doing this. However, only you and your budget know what you will be including in your big day so don't be afraid to start putting ideas on paper. During this process you'll get a really good idea of the scope of planning required to make your wedding day happen. At this point the couple, and their family, usually realize if they are going to need a professional Wedding Planner. If so, some couple's will know to what extent they'd like help, while others aren't quite sure. But once you know you need the help of a professional it's time to set up an initial consultation.

6)Follow your timeline and start planning!

Now you are on your way to having the wedding of your dreams! Congratulations again and happy planning!

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